Taking time to yourself is key in life. I say this because if you never take time to yourself and figure out yourself, how do you expect to have a positive affect on others? While doing this just take time to think and recognize the things you have done, and the things you want to do in life. Silence is key, always take time to think and meditate, you will be surprised on how much this can help you moving along. While in relationships as well, don’t jump into something if you haven’t taken time to figure them, or it out. Not being patient and getting what you want is one thing, but being patient and getting what you need is another.
Having Regrets will never truly be a good thing. Having this feeling can result to you feeling as if you are always wrong, and you will always second guess your actions. When you do or say something you should be able to do it with confidence. Confidence is a key word, lots of people now a days lack that trait. I am not excluded from this either, I struggled with finding my confidence for a long time until I finally realized my Worth. I knew that I deserved best and I should seek only that. So with me now thinking that way, I stopped regretting my actions and I knew everything I did would only benefit me and make me feel positive. Once you start having confidence in what you do you will no longer Regret nor second guess. So I encourage you guys to find yourself, and really sit down and think and discover your worth.
Making Goals and keeping yourself motivated to achieve them is very important. Doing this is very important, I say this because this will keep you always working hard at whatever your goal is. Saying you are going to do something isn’t enough now a days, you have to write it down and if you are going to only say it you have to mean it. Once you achieve your goal you will have a sense of accomplishment and you will want to have that feeling all the time so as a result you will constantly be bettering yourself. There is no limit to what you can achieve in life, if you set your mind to it and stick to it you will do it. “You are the only thing holding you back”
Taking care of yourself first should always be your number one priority. I made this a topic because I know there are some people that feel the necessity to put others before themselves. At the end of the day you must realize that you have to make sure you are satisfied with the way you are living. Taking care of someone else’s wants, and needs before your own will not benefit you. Only time this is appropriate is when it is a must, when there is no other way to do it you must take care of that persons Needs. Just be sure you are helping yourself feel good and make sure you get the things you want out of life, because no one else is living your life for you. After you feel you’ve met your needs and wants, than invest in others especially when it comes to relationships. Don’t let your partner fool you into thinking that they are more important than you. Things should be mutual and have a balance in order for the relationship to function. If you make one more important than the other than, this only makes things worse because you might have a selfish partner that doesn’t like to give back. If that’s the case, you will just be looking and feeling dumb about things because you invested so much without getting anything in return. The whole point of I’m trying to get at is Live your best life, first because no one else is gonna live it for you.